I am so tired! Apparently this is the phrase I have been saying since I was 2 years old. My Mom recently told me that she used to pray when she woke me up in the morning that I would say anything but “I’m tired!” Apparently she can’t remember a morning I didn’t say that same phrase.
On Sunday, I was so tired during church I kept thinking I was going to fall asleep and then as we walked through the mall I was just waiting until Tiara declared it was time for us to go home. Why? Because as always I was tired. My Mom said what she always says, “you are always tired, Tiffani!”
The weird thing is that I have been trying to think back on my life before Tiara was born and remember if I have always been tired every moment of every day or it has been only the past 14 years.
My Mom claims I used to come home so exhausted from Kindergarten that I insisted on taking a nap before I ate my lunch, I don’t have many memories of how I felt from as a child but as a teenager, I always remember feeling exhausted.
I hated when everyone stayed up to watch Saturday Night Live and talked about it on Monday at school because no matter how hard I tried I always fell asleep before the show even started. I was lucky if I made it through the whole episode of Fantasy Island. Remember that show was on after The Love Boat on Saturday nights? Such good shows!
Back in college I really had to work hard at staying up late because everyone stayed super late. I do remember always telling my roommates that I had to go to bed by 2am or I wouldn’t be able to function for days. So even when I was out partying and having a blast, I always got my bed to butt before 2am, what a weirdo!
Once I met Lou, I used to pray I could function on as little sleep as him. We would go out partying, fall asleep around my witching hour (2am) and he would be up and ready for the gym at 6am. WHAT, how is that even possible? I used to go home from his house in the morning (Shhh, don’t tell my girls) with intentions of going straight to class but most days I just crawled back into my bed at the sorority house and didn’t wake up until noon. My grades fell to an all time low that first semester we met in college.
After Tabitha was born I drank diet coke all day long to keep me awake so I know I always felt tired back then. Even though I was always tired I still managed to work a full time job and go law school at night. On the weekends Tabitha and I gardened, walked, and did errands. Once Tiara was born I took on a whole new level of exhaustion which has never ceased. The sad thing is now that I am getting older sometimes I can’t fight through my tiredness. Like today for example I fell asleep while I was reading Tiara books and only woke up because her caretaker knocked on the front door.
I felt like I could sleep until tomorrow.
So I have decided that if a Genie in a bottle ever washes up on the beach and offers to grant me a wish which can only be for myself not one of my children or husband, you know if I could give them away I would so there would have to be a stipulation that the wish must be solely for me, I will ask to “never be tired but always be able to fall asleep at night”!
Have a great day!
xoxo tiffani
Janine Huldie says
Great wish and trust me I am a lot like you in this way and always feel tired, especially since I had kids. Plus I never understood those people either who could go to bed at 2 am and be up at 6 for the gym. So not me either. And Fantasy Island and The Love Boat were such great shows!! 🙂 xoxo!!
Jamie@SouthMainMuse says
Hope you get some rest. I remember trying to stay up last to watch Love American Style in my bedroom — with the sound real low so mom wouldn’t hear. I was so tired last Friday after the week leading up to the Fourth and getting our house ready for remodel — a friend (good friend) texted me about coming out to a local event Friday night. I texted back — completely honest — You know I love you, but I’m just exhausted. Think we’ll stay home. I didn’t even tell my daughter because she would have begged to go. I’m sure having Tiara to look after 24/7 adds to it. My children have been gone with their grandparents two nights and I already feel 100 percent more rested. Hugs.
Sandy says
Tiffani, Thanks for sharing this! I can relate so much to what you’re saying! My mom said about me as a child that I was, “born tired, then had a relapse.” I dragged myself to school even as a little one, and I stayed home a lot with various illnesses that were all really just…tiredness. My friends always made fun of me for nearly falling asleep at parties. I drink coffee all day. I have always tried different diets, not to lose weight, but to find that magic bullet for more energy. For me, allergy medicine has helped and eating less processed food and running, but I still always feel like the low-energy dud in any group.
I have a daughter with TSC, too. She’s 11 with seizures, ADHD, kidney cysts and the beginning of angiofibromas on her face. She’s mildly-affected, with average intelligence so I don’t deal with nearly the level of care that many other TSC families do.
Again, thanks for your story. It’s my first time to your blog but I will be back!
Sandy
tiffani goff says
Thanks Sandy, glad to know I’m not the only one! xoxo tiffani
Roseanne says
Ditto all of that sister!!!!!
Lanaya | Raising Reagan says
I think that is the perfect wish! And of course you are tired … have you read your life? LOL
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