I was having a great day and then someone texted me something and my entire mood changed. I instantly felt BLAH, BLUE, CRAPPY, SAD, IRRITATED, FRUSTRATED AND ANGRY all at once. I kept telling myself “no one can make you feel bad about yourself, only you can do that Tiffani.” Giving myself therapy didn’t work. …
What would Tiffani do?
I used to write a series “What would Tiffani do? and loved it but the questions stopped coming in. Well, a friend sent me a question yesterday, so lucky me I get help. Love doing these. Hi Tiffani, Here is my dilemma. It’s all about MY baby cradle that was given to me by my…
Hmmm, “where did Mom go?”
Let’s start with talking about what happened to my will power when Trinity’s friend arrived at our home for a sleepover and brought with her over a dozen treats from the Corner Bakery as a hostess gift. Well it hasn’t been pretty. When I saw her walking up with the 3 mini bundt cakes, 2…
Something I can’t stop thinking about…
So often I see something happen in society and then I can’t get it out of my heart and mind for days and sometimes even weeks at a time. This is one of those times. I saw this unfold about 2 weeks ago and I continue to see this scene in my mind at least…
Why am I so fickle?
Do you know people who can never make up their minds about anything? Well, I have never been one of those people. I usually make all my decisions big or small very quickly. Like the time I decided to enroll in law school after thinking about it for a few minutes. I never discussed it…
Time to say good-bye…
After my post last week, “why isn’t anyone helping me” I received many different comments and words of support from readers, but so did other members of my family. People in our community contacted my family members to check on me. Friends contacted friends all with worry about me. Through this process, I have been…
Why isn’t anyone helping me?
Wednesday morning Tiara and I drove Trinity to school and on our way home Tiara was holding my hand. She started sinking her nails into my skin and I pulled my hand away and said “stop, don’t hurt Mommy.” She then grabbed my hand again as I was turning onto our street and once again…
Hmmmm. what else could break?
As you all know Tiara is very rough on everything, especially furniture and screens. At this exact moment I have three windows without screens, compliments of Tiara attempting to escape out of them and I have 3 broken chairs. Not to mention the drinking glasses, plates, picture frames, vases, end tables, televisions, dvr players and…
Why do I always do this?
As you can see from the picture Tiara and I are wearing matching outfits. I do this almost everyday without even thinking about it. I get dressed and then I pick out her clothes. I guess I just put her in the same stuff I am in the mood to wear, so we end…
Is it bedtime yet?
I have been waiting for bedtime since 2:00 this afternoon and I still have 7 hours to go. UGH! I am writing this on Saturday afternoon and am so over my weekend I wish it was Monday. I know I have said it before but weekends are treacherous for me. No schedule, no routine, a…









